Our pipe band was invited to a BBQ in the back yard of our leading side drummer and his wife. We were asked to bring our instruments. After having enjoyed a delicious outdoor meal, we tuned up in their beautiful big yard, and then began to play a few lively tunes compete with drums. We had an appreciative audience, namely, our wives, who have not often heard us as a band. We covered quite a bit of our repertoire.
After stopping for a short rest, we were surprised when our host welcomed a newcomer into his yard. He was apparently a neighbor, an ordinary sort of fellow probably about seventy, and he was now standing in our midst, holding a large flask by its neck, with its flared-out bottom. He also carried a stack of small plastic cups, not unlike communion glasses. Already, he was pouring a sample for our host, of what was obviously a little bit of 'whistle wetter' and saying, "Here's a toast to you and to all the band. We've really been enjoying your music where I live, down the street."
He went within the circle, stopping by each one of us, pouring out small portions of what the bottle contained. Indeed, it was only a sample, but there was a sincerity in his tone when he thanked each of us individually. When he finished his round, he topped off his salute to the band by emptying the flask,'straight from the bottle,' while we in awe, stood there watching. One could not but appreciate his kindly neighborliness, complimenting us on our music and letting us know that our music was appreciated.
Other pipers have told of neighbors not so complimentary. I think that is why I was so impressed by this man's thoughtfulness, letting us know that he and his neighbors down the street found our music enlightening. I'll remember this incident because it was an illustration of kindness and thoughtfulness. I'm sure all of us will think occasionally of this man's neighborliness and find some opportunity to show our own appreciation for our neighbors.
